As a child, I only had one dream. Becoming a mom. I didn’t set out to be a single mom. I set out to be the best mom I can be, and that hasn’t changed.
I fall, I rise up..
I make mistakes, I learn..
I face challenges, I get stronger..
I raise mini me to be her unique self and to follow her own path in life. I encourage her to listen to the inner voice that you somehow tend to ignore while growing up. I’m teaching her to accept emotions and challenges that crosses her path. Face them, make a choice, accept, move on and let go. Pain and disappointment is part of life. I’m not protecting her from these emotions, I’m learning her to face this in life and that you always have a choice how to deal with things that happen to you. It’s up to you if you let them defeat you. Because no one gets through life without challenges. I’m learning her to trust herself and to not let people or situations get her out of balance. I want her to recognize good and bad vibes and to stay close to people who feel like sunshine. I travel a lot with her to show her there’s more to life. To accept and respect other people and their culture. But most of all, I’m teaching her all about (self)love, self confidence and to follow her dreams.
While I’m teaching her all the above, it got to my attention that I’m also growing and learning. Now I’m at the point that I learned a lot about (self)love and self confidence in the past 8 years. I can hear my inner voice again. I’m learning to trust and to stay away from people and situations with a bad vibe. I also started to follow my dreams. And ever since I left my comfortzone last year (my best decision ever), I strongly believe that I can reach any goal in life..
My sweet little girl. I am so so proud of you. It took me almost 40 years to learn what you already know. Love you to the moon and back, my angel (and teacher) here on earth. You are not only sweet, but also pretty, lovable, wise, smart and so courageous. The joy and sparkle in your eyes is the best thank you I can get as a mom.
I will keep on loving and supporting you unconditionally.. ?